what truegritter said. No guarantees in any of this, or in real life generally.
There still isn't! But we go forth in life knowing b/c of our inner work & faith, we will be alright regardless of outcome. We do not control the outcomes and we accept this.
Try doing the Serenity prayer if you can. At one point, I did it a dozen times a day. Whatever works.
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