just got back from the gym and noticed that C had called while I was gone - when I called her back she asked me if I had gone to the gym? I had told her a couple of days ago that I had an appt with my trainer tonight and she was planning on comming with me but she did not write it down and forgot. We also were going to meet tomorrow morning at 6 again but in looking at the weather report we have a raining freeze warning for tonight - it is now raining and the temp is 34 and suppose to go into the high 20s. So to be safe we set it off til Saturday am
Had a really nice call with some flirting on her part.
Hope the weather is not too bad tomorrow so I can at least get to work. Us self employed folks don't get paid unless we go in.
I really wish C would try a different AD though, when mine are up to par, they do make me sleepy early in the evening, but they do not give me an I don't care attitude.
Hope you get to work all right, we got some snow but don't think the roads are bad.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
found a local counselor that has a regular office and which is not associated with an established church as part of the counseling. However he is a christian counselor and does believe in Solution Focused Therepy (altho he has not heard of Michelle) In my initial telephone conversation with him he did seem to believe in a lot of Michele's views though. Have an initial one on one with him for next Thursday night at 7:30 - If I don't like him then I will not go back If I do then I will not push C to go to him but rather will just let on how good he is and how much I like him. If she want to go then great - if not then I am going for me anyway.
Had a good IM from C yesterday am - told me about her going to see Andrew Lloyd Webber's "Cats" on Wed night. she had bought 2 tickets with the idea of taking her employee as a kind of bonus but after having to let her go she asked one of her Sisters to come up and go. at the last minute she asked her other two sisters to meet them and maybe be able to get two more tickets at the door - they did and she said they all had a good time. We IMed a little on that some and some other general chit chat but I stayed offline most of the afternoon and had no contact.
Went to gym last night and had good workout and noticed that when I got back that my caller ID showed she had called while I was out. I called her back and we talked for about 40 minutes
positives from yesterday
1. think I have found a good local counselor 2. had a nice IM from C yesterday 3. had a good worout 4. had a good phone call w/ C 5. have a workout date w/ C for Saturday am 6. it is 34º and raining but at least it is not freezing like the weatherman said it would be. 7. I am starting to notice some firming up of some of my mussles from my workouts - long way to go though.
just a follow up journaling - C sent me an IM first thing this AM - a Hug Icon. although she will usually initiate IM, she usually does not start with the Hug Icon - I had a client and cound not respond much but did chat some.
more jorunaling - Continuing to work on me - Years ago (something like 25 or so) I was working on my private pilots cert. Got my Solo and actually did alot but ran out of $ before I got my ticket. Have always wanted to start up again - WELL FOLKS - have an appointment tomorrow at noon with a flight instructor to get started again. (and guess what - it is a lady instructor)
just had an interesting IM from C - she had wanted to work out with me tomorrow morning. I asked her several times (last night and this morning) what time she wanted to meet w/o an answer. so in our IM just know I told her that I would be there around 8. She came back with that - that is not sleeping in and she was thinking around 10 or 11. Since I have an appointment for my first flight lession in about 25 years I could not make it then but I only told her that I had to be somewhere at 11 and could not work out that late. It was almost 2 minutes before she responded with "Well....... I doubt I'll see you" I just responded "OK" about another minute and she said "sorry" and a sad face icon. I responded Oh well - such is life. after another minute she responded " I'm going to be out tonight with M...., don't think you've met her, she works at ....." I simply responded "have fun" another short break and she said "thanks, sorry about tomorrow" and I said "there is always later - guess 6am on Tuesday" to which she responded "sounds good" I then sent her my Rainbow Icon.
So I guess tomorrow I will go work out around 8:30 to 10:00 and then go down the street to the airport and and take my flight intro and then maybe set up a schedule. then I will likely take a road trip for the rest of the day. I will likely not have any contact w/ C all weekend.
actually, from the interchange, it sounds like she might be getting the hint? is that what you gather odga? like you might not just be available for her beck and call?
