Good morning,

H left at 6:30am for a "BIKE RIDE"....mmmm...uh huh.....When asked, he said he would be gone until 12:30 or so which really means 2:00pm or so.

Said he was going to ride his bike on the coast. I think I have narrowed down his art of the lie. He does this funny little throat clear thing, then he talks about what he is going to do here when he gets home (i.e. finish the fence for our garden, help clean the house, etc...)

He asked what I was going to do today and I said I don't know...just left it kind of vague. He said that I should go to the gym and I said I probably would, but wasn't sure what else the day had in store for me. Seriously...why should I hang around cleaning the house and doing laundry on a beautiful day when he is out doing his thing. I'm outta here! smile

So, I am trying to come up with some fabulous fun thing that I can do alone and maybe won't be here waiting when he gets back. Maybe take the train north....OR....Joshua Tree to take photos.....OR....??

Working on my plan!

Had a fun night last night with H, we met some friends at a local brew house and then went to dinner. We all shared a great bottle of wine. All in all...nice evening. We were talking about the royal wedding and our friends said that they think I look like Kate Middleton (which I obviously took as a nice compliment). Glad they said it in front of H. Don't get too many compliments from him. Very rare in fact.

I wore something shear to bed. H definitely noticed.

My song for the day: "You Don't Know Me" (Ray Charles/Diana Krall version)


Me - 49
H - 56
S - 23
D - 20
Married 25 years
H moved out 10/11/13
H moved back in 10/13/13
H moved out again 8/1/14