I was posting here many many months ago, and it was extremely helpful in navigating through the dark waters that most of us are struggling through.
So helpful in fact that I kind of got caught up in "getting a life" and lost track of this community. For which I'm sorry, because I would like to make a point to extend my support to other people who are having marital problems. But in any event I needed a place to vent a little and I thought coming back to the fold was a good idea.
The update is that after about 2 years of mulling around, my W finally grew a pair and decided to pursue her divorce that she claimed to want so bad so long ago.
The kicker is that the courts have very ironic timing. I'm going to be standing up in my friends' wedding today and am supposed to give a toast about marriage. So it's getting to me a little that I had to wake up on THIS day to a legal courrier about this. I'm not as sad or devestated by this as I would have been a year ago (a LOT has happened to sour me more to her, but maybe I can get into that in a later post). Still kind of stings. At least I get to go party at a wedding as a single person though, right?
Age: 28 Wife's Age: 28 Relationship: 10 Years (dated on and off) Married: Less than one year Seperated: 1.75 years, finally served with D 4/30/2011
