Please do not think suicide is the answer. It never is.
It's such a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
I know your hurting, I know it kills you inside. We ALL understand that feeling here.

If you were to end your life, think of all the people you would be leaving behind. People who love and care about you. I care about you enough to not let something like this end your life and I don't even know you.
So please, get some help ASAP if you truly feel that way.

You have to remember that the 180's are for you, not for him. I can't believe he had the nerve to speak to the OW in front of you. I would tell him not to do that again. He doesn't need to pour salt into the wound.

Do you know, is this OW close by or is she in another state?

Of course he thinks he is in love. We are all head over heels in love when we think we've met "the one" but you and I both know that the euphoric state does not last. And when that wears off...then what?

Keep your head held high, and keep posting. Sometimes posts take a while to show up when your being moderated but don't get discouraged. I think that is the mods way of weeding out the trolls.


"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack."
¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤