Are you seriously going to show up to his competition?
I really do not think that is a good idea. At all.
As far as his family goes, do not get into a squabble with them. This is between you and your H. He can involve them all he wants, it doesn't mean you have to.
Hey, at least he sent you $$ for his half of the mortgage. A lot of WAS do not bother.
Why is your contractor upset with him? Why did you involve him in your personal business?
Next time you are tempted to txt your H, ask yourself this "Is what I'm going to bring my H closer to me?"
"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack." ¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤