Quote: If Deb filed and she does not want to go forward with the D then she should just tell her A to dismiss it. ---- After all this is one thing that bothered me about C in my sitch. After the D was final I told her that she got what she wanted and she got very defensive, so I dropped that and have not brought it up anymore, BUT I still believe that the ONLY reason that C is now Divorced is that she wanted to be divorced. After all she filed the case, I let her know the options of dismissing it, or even continuing it, but she CHOOSE to go forward with it.
And that makes me wonder if my H thought i still wanted one. He said "Well I thought we were getting one" I said no I told you in June to "lets leave things as they are and I don't think I want one"
So when they say actions speak louder than words, they are right. He thought since i didn't withdraw i was still getting one.
If my Att pushes I am demanded a withdraw. Can I do that even if H wants to go through with it?
I think H is confused. And thanks for answering holdingon!
Still going to have talk with H. will listen to what he says. odga~I DON'T WANT A D! Wish you could be my Att! LOL
