And maybe you should let him know that you are not alright with his decision to have an A. From your post, it seemed like your H was concerned about how you felt about him and his decision. Maybe go dark. It is hard. Give it a little time and see what happens. JMO.

BITS

M:34 W:28
SD:9
D:6 (pr)
M:3 T:6
Separated 1/16/11
ILYBNILWY 10/25/10
PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10

I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...