Thank you all!! I'm so glad Andabelle that your sister & her family are all right! I just met my parents & took them a generator, they think they could be out of power for 2 weeks. I tried to get them to come here but they want to stay close in case the power does come back on, I can't blame them.
Snodderly, yes I am continuing on with my life. My ex sister in law called me last weekend, I'm not sure why. She just talked but she did ask how life was going for me. I didn't know if she was fishing or just being nice, so I told her I was doing just fine & didn't give any details. She didn't say a whole lot about ex, did a little bit but not much & I didn't ask any questions. I did tell her that I bet I was happier now than he was, she agreed with me.
I know I was a mess for a while & I never thought I would be in the frame of mind that I'm in now. Believe me, everyone out there, it is hard & you just don't think you can do it but I'm living proof you can! I was one that could not & would not believe that my h would leave & not come back, I just knew he would come back to me. Life does go on, it took me a long time to deal with this as some of you know, I was a mess!!! God answers prayers, we may not get the answer we want but He will give us what we need.