AJ - Seems like your H is making the gradual steps to get more involved. I know you are very guarded right now, but I think being open to them will help your H feel as though he is making the right decisions for himself and his family.

I do like how you are bringing the bucket list back out and taking care of yourself. I think this will do wonders for your psyche.

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated