Good morning Holding - If Deb filed and she does not want to go forward with the D then she should just tell her A to dismiss it. ---- After all this is one thing that bothered me about C in my sitch. After the D was final I told her that she got what she wanted and she got very defensive, so I dropped that and have not brought it up anymore, BUT I still believe that the ONLY reason that C is now Divorced is that she wanted to be divorced. After all she filed the case, I let her know the options of dismissing it, or even continuing it, but she CHOOSE to go forward with it.
As to H's A calling him about what was going on with the case, I think that is ok, but for H's A to push for H to move forward with it, Well, I have questions about that. However, Judges generally do not like open cases on their calendar for a long time and not moving, so it is generally a good idea to move it forward or to dismiss it if the case has been open for awhile.
