I'm sure you're sick of it by now, but I'm swinging anyways.
Quote:
M: Last person I figured you'd want to talk to was me yesterday
This sh!t!
You say you are never the one to initiate the R talk.
But look at this statement.
What does it imply?
YOU can direct these conversations.
Ask her about something that has NOTHING to do with your R.
Direct to conversation to something light, friendly.
Make it FUN!
This sh!t makes in PAINFUL!
I feel like I've said the same thing over and over.
You STILL seem to either direct the conversation, or at least follow along, to something R related.
I know it was a big day.
Hard to not have it on your mind.
But man, just one good convo with NONE of this would be huge.
Then two. Then three.
Try it. You've tried everything else. Worth a shot.
Originally Posted By: Country_Song
I'm sure you're sick of it by now, but I'm swinging anyways.
Quote:
M: Last person I figured you'd want to talk to was me yesterday
This sh!t!
You say you are never the one to initiate the R talk.
But look at this statement.
What does it imply?
YOU can direct these conversations.
Ask her about something that has NOTHING to do with your R.
Direct to conversation to something light, friendly.
Make it FUN!
This sh!t makes in PAINFUL!
I feel like I've said the same thing over and over.
You STILL seem to either direct the conversation, or at least follow along, to something R related.
I know it was a big day.
Hard to not have it on your mind.
But man, just one good convo with NONE of this would be huge.
Then two. Then three.
Try it. You've tried everything else. Worth a shot.
Ahh The 2x4 I was missing to finish my dog house, somehow I knew you would bring it Country.
I can see totally see how the statement can be viewed as a R talk, but honestly that is not how I mean it at all.
I really did not think she wanted to talk to me that day and I did not want to talk to her.
Frankly that day I did not want to talk to anybody.
So I am not really sure why in her mind she thought I would contact her.
I got it though fun/light................
Remember I am still trying to decide if I want to continue the constant contact or not and I am trying to determine if I can be her friend. This is where I am at the moment. What I have to work on at this point is getting over the feeling of being handled. I am all about reconciliation at this point but it is like a car going 90MPH on the highway and I feel like I am running out of time. This is for me to work out but 25 and cat have cleared this up for me very well so now I need to sit back and re-read those post over and over and do some thinking.
Anyhow next time you issue a 2x4 make it a little bigger because I am needing a support colum for my dog house.
Thanks
9: This thread has been great and there is great advice for all of us to have. There is one more AWESOME poster who I am waiting on but I am sure she will show up soon enough
LITB
A 4x4? Sometimes a hammer works best!
My feet are in the water but I would be lying if I did not say that the thought of entering the water and start swimming is not scary, but I know that is the only option.
