Better yet, take plenty of photos with your phone and send them to him while they are taking place. LOL. Who? Me? Vengeful??
Goodfight, as Snodderly said, it's just a shame that MLC'rs feel they are 'owed' by everyone, even their children. Obviously, your D needs you now more than ever, and since you seem to be the only adult in the picture, focus on her. Get her counseling or talk to her or just whatever as she is obviously hurting and doesn't know how to direct her anger.
I know this sounds hurtful, but I agree with Snodderly that if he had truly intended to come home, a petty argument with his D would not have stopped him. He would have seen how much pain he needed to get started making up for. ((HUGS))
