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Re: M exit strategy ~ kd ~ #2150325 04/29/11 10:21 PM
Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 13,511 Likes: 1 CA- now East coast 2 25yearsmlc Member
25yearsmlc Member 2 Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 13,511 Likes: 1 CA- now East coast	Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem Thanks Starsky and 25. I hope for change in W's thoughts on M. And I hope for answers that I may never truly get. And I hope to see changes in W's behaviour... Everything I do regarding W is projecting my desires on her. I get that... Really? You get that??...b/c ALL of this post is about HER AND what you want her to do or feel and you have NO control over that. Talk about structuring yourself for failure. Did you really read my post? My biggest regret is how much time I wasted focussing on h and mind reading, and NOT on ME or MY LIFE... Now, back to YOU... I was going to post here about some "things" that I observed. W's behaviour No more about your wife...just what are YOU doing for your 180s & GAL??? on phone call regarding paperwork she's anxious I get done and stuff regarding the kids and then an email telling me what I need to do (when and how) in that regard... And I want to have an emotion over them, but then... that's not detaching... that's "reading in" to her thoughts... trying to "control" her... yes it is So I'll let it flow off my back. But it feels horrible.... It's the reasons I moved out and I'm still hyper sensitive to it... I continue to thank you guys for the 2x4s... good luck. Hang in there. Do the DB work, it's works. M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 2016 X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016 = CLOSURE 4 ME Embrace the Change

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M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/16/11 07:06 PM
Re: M exit strategy	sgctxok	04/16/11 08:33 PM
Re: M exit strategy	islander	04/16/11 11:08 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/16/11 11:25 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/17/11 12:40 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/17/11 06:13 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/17/11 12:54 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 02:06 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/18/11 02:28 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Forrest Gump	04/18/11 04:21 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 12:27 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 01:02 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 01:26 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Mach1	04/18/11 01:51 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 02:17 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 04:13 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/18/11 04:18 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 04:39 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 05:34 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Mach1	04/18/11 05:46 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 06:16 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 06:32 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Mach1	04/18/11 06:53 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 08:24 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/19/11 02:40 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/19/11 02:57 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/19/11 06:46 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/19/11 06:55 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/19/11 08:20 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Redo	04/19/11 08:26 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/20/11 05:25 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Redo	04/20/11 07:52 PM
Re: M exit strategy	jbnati	04/20/11 08:24 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/20/11 08:38 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/20/11 08:43 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Eryam	04/20/11 08:51 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/20/11 09:05 PM
Re: M exit strategy	hydin	04/20/11 10:43 PM
Re: M exit strategy	OnMyWay	04/21/11 02:37 AM
Re: M exit strategy	OnMyWay	04/21/11 02:44 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/21/11 03:05 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/21/11 09:19 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/24/11 04:53 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/24/11 02:22 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/24/11 03:07 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/25/11 05:51 PM
Re: M exit strategy	ninelives	04/25/11 06:20 PM
Re: M exit strategy	2stepboogie	04/25/11 07:22 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Redo	04/25/11 07:29 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/25/11 09:07 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/26/11 12:51 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/26/11 09:46 PM
Re: M exit strategy	jbnati	04/26/11 09:49 PM
Re: M exit strategy	islander	04/26/11 11:54 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/27/11 04:01 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/27/11 04:15 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/27/11 02:08 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/25/11 06:24 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/21/11 02:45 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/18/11 03:38 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	04/27/11 10:13 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/29/11 08:39 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	04/29/11 10:21 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/03/11 01:03 PM
Re: M exit strategy	jbnati	05/03/11 01:40 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/03/11 04:26 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	05/03/11 06:37 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/03/11 08:10 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/03/11 11:18 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/03/11 11:20 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/04/11 02:29 AM
Re: M exit strategy	islander	05/04/11 01:13 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/05/11 07:08 PM
Re: M exit strategy	islander	05/05/11 07:33 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/05/11 07:43 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/07/11 03:55 AM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/07/11 05:09 AM
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Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/08/11 05:23 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/09/11 06:10 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/09/11 06:26 AM
Re: M exit strategy	islander	05/09/11 01:01 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/09/11 10:13 PM
Re: M exit strategy	♪CS♪	05/09/11 10:26 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/09/11 11:23 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 01:59 AM
Re: M exit strategy	♪CS♪	05/10/11 02:09 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 02:14 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 02:20 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 02:32 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 03:51 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 12:48 PM
Re: M exit strategy	♪CS♪	05/10/11 01:54 PM
Re: M exit strategy	♪CS♪	05/10/11 02:01 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/11/11 03:05 AM
Re: M exit strategy	TulsaTime	05/11/11 03:23 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/11/11 04:04 AM
Re: M exit strategy	TulsaTime	05/11/11 05:23 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/11/11 01:20 PM
Re: M exit strategy	ninelives	05/11/11 03:19 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/12/11 04:55 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/12/11 05:17 PM
Re: M exit strategy	♪CS♪	05/12/11 05:46 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/14/11 08:05 AM
Re: M exit strategy	ninelives	05/14/11 12:53 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	05/14/11 01:07 PM
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Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/17/11 05:38 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/18/11 04:34 AM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/18/11 06:36 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	05/18/11 02:21 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/18/11 03:06 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/18/11 03:16 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/18/11 03:37 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/18/11 05:30 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 01:56 AM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/19/11 02:13 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 02:25 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 02:33 AM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/19/11 09:44 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 03:16 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 04:16 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 04:49 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/19/11 05:12 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/19/11 05:14 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 06:08 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/19/11 11:07 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/20/11 07:04 AM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/20/11 08:33 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/20/11 04:16 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	05/09/11 02:48 PM

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