lots of mind reading going on. Why don't you just speak w/clarity about what you want & take her word at face value? Seems co-dependent & counter-productive to keep guessing. Owning your words is strong if they're calmly expressed.Mind reading doesn't work well & it enables too many games to continue. I'll keep my other "alarm bells" to myself b/c I can tell you feel overwhelmed.
But Set measurable SPECIFIC goals or you won't get anywhere.
Just mho.
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