Might get it this weekend if I get to go out of town.
I agree with you though on those being her love languages. I noticed that she is very receptive to small hand made gifts, and really appreciates that I started washing dishes. (She loathes it, and I loathe seeing the pile). I also know that I am in direct competition with her best friend, who I suspected at one point of her having an EA with. (Never have been able to prove it either way) They're both crazy fan girls of the same bands, so I need to be able to listen otherwise she will.
I also noticed that she has a very hard time sharing her emotions. To her it makes her feel vulnerable and weak. This is to the point that she hits me like a little school girl hits the boy she likes. (Before anyone cries out spouse abuse, they are light slaps on the arm, good natured, and we are both laughing when they occur. I am not walking into doors :P )
One more thing I have to mention. We usually fight over her indecision for dinner, I always say whatever she wants, and she waffles then gets angry at me for giving her the choice. (Typical NGS) Last night quickly picked the restaurant, while picking the appetizers she kept trying to change my mind, and I held my ground, she even tried saying that she really wanted another one to see if I would bow down, and I said "no I want this one, if you would like another one you can get it separetely." This is one of those weird fights we'd always have, it was very nice to take charge.
