MK, I don’t know why any more than you do. We can speculate, but what positives come from that? So what about taking an action and seeing what the outcome is?
You’ve asked nicely several times, without a positive outcome. IMO opinion this makes her small and petty. She is in control of how she responds to your request. Each time you ask, you acknowledge this.
Unless we watch for it we can become entrenched in non profitable behaviors. Remember cheese less holes from DR?
Do you want to become small and petty? No you want to be the bigger person almost magnanimous, noble spirited in this.
What would it cost you to burn a copy of a couple of CDs? I wouldn’t send all of them all at once, but I would take the high road and send a couple then wait and see what the outcome is, eventually sending all of them as time permits. They are copies you’re not losing the originals. Or you could upload them to a photo sharing site.
What would it cost to burn an edited CD with specific photos of good times. IDK about this last bit as the emotional cost could be high.
The thing here is to be the bigger person, and demonstrate your changes, not as the old MK, but as the new improved MK, confident and in control.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
