One of my colleagues at work, also my friend invited me to hang out with him at this local club for the evening. I've never done that. So i thought why not.
All i can say is that it was different. I loved the music andthe beats, but it seemed like people who were just looking to hook up. I guess not my cup of tea. I figured i'll find other GAL activities like my R/C hobby, maybe a book club. But being there reminded me of my wife. She always loved a good music and danced well.
25, I did take your advice on trying to be a friend with my wife. Yesterday after talking to daughter and before hanging up, i did ask her 'how are you doing'. I think she was taken aback and asked me 'why are you asking?' I said 'just like that'. She says 'i am fine. How are you'. I said 'fine' and then we hung up. A small step perhaps toward a better relationship with STBXW.
Another test i guess. My dad was supposed to come home from the hospital yesterday evening. Looks like there's some internal bleeding. So now he stays another day until they do an endoscopy. Normally i would have been a wreak at this point. But oddly i am actually holding up and doing what i need to do. Calling up and re-assuring my mom. There are some things in life that are just not under your control and all i can do is pray.
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