Well, my wife comes as usual to fetch our son. In the midst of it, my wife asks if I have the address to my new place. (It's funny how I actually thought about the same thing today and wrote it on a piece of paper for her.) As I handed it to her, she asked if I was moving to somewhere else in Vallejo. I said, no, Benicia (which is the same town she's in). She immediately turned pale, then asked how far away am I. I told her, 10-minutes tops; Benicia isn't THAT big. As she got into her car she was quite obviously shaken.
If y'all recall her paranoia/privacy issue awhile back, well, either she has put that at the forefront of her already convoluted mind, or her formerly-divorced best friend has been indoctrinating my wife about her experience with HER ex-husband. Whatever the reason, I decided on this town because it's NOT Vallejo (low police presence, higher crime, iffy neighborhoods), in other words, it's better, safer and quieter for myself and our son. In this situation, I find it hard to do the opposite (i.e. not move out of Vallejo) of validating my wife's fears and easing her mind.
