The sitch now is different than last time, but Ceberon posted on my threads last time with this. It's really what is keeping me going on being dark at this point.
Quoting calystra: 12/20/2002 : I tell H I'm not ready to make financial decisions - go away for Christmas and go dark for 2 weeks. H is bothered by my lack of contact.
Quoting ceberon: The dark period was pretty smart. When talking to the W every day without break, it just kept my feelings buried inside, since I couldn't relax when talking to her. With the quiet period for so long, I had time to stew. Feelings tend to mellow if they don't get refreshed, and without the W around to refresh them, the anger I felt faded away quite a bit.
