There are programs to detect spyware and tracking programs, google it.
You could also go to the library and use a different computer, it would get you out and about to see other people. Does the uni have access to computers for you?
Have you been doing your prep work to leave the M?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
Have you been doing your prep work to leave the M?
I've been doing a lot of thinking, but if by prep work you mean contacting a lawyer ... not yet. Yes, I could use a computer at uni or library. Good idea about getting out and about.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
I'm okay. I've been at home most of the time ... finishing my last uni assignment, and planning the outline of a book. I'll be spending the next couple of months working on that. I get together with one or another friend now and then, just to get out of the house (although, I am interested in seeing how they are doing too). I've also started clearing out junk from the house, although I'm not sure if we'll sell or not, but it will be nice to have a spring cleaned house.
H is still out of the country and won't be back for another 2 or 3 weeks. He doesn't sound happy there, up in the mountains.
Well, that's my exciting life.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Hi Being, I see that you are keeping busy with uni, book writing?...that's exciting and house organizing...that's all good...The time of solitude gives you the opportunity to work on yourself and to think about what you want for the future.
Good friend network is important too...you hang in there honey..you will figure out what you need and what would make you happy.
(((hugs)))
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
My H and I went to visit my D23 and we stayed in a really nice hotel. I thought to myself "what a waste not having a romantic partner in this room." I asked my H how he felt about me, no, in fact, demanded he tell me. He said he does not love me, and hasn't for the last 4 years. I wonder if that's when he met someone else .... not that I care anymore. I am done trying to win his affections .... he's not worth it. I have worked so hard on this marriage, and he has done nothing (although he thinks he has, but whatever). He's a coward. I'm always the one to make the change, trying to find out what's happening. He does nothing.
So, y'all, from now on, it's going to be about disconnecting from my H, separating at first, then perhaps down the line, the big D. I just don't care anymore. There is more in this world that I can be giving my time and effort.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
