I am not at all surprised that your stepsons obviously love you very much.

I am also not surprised that your h is not happy. These MLCers think we are the problem so they get divorced. Only to find out that that doesnt make them happy either because they havent figured out that the problem is staring at them in the freakin mirror!

Punkin, you are loved for the wonderful person that you are. It really is your h's loss all the way around.