Navy, I would not ask. I would not mention it. You're building trust. Can't do that if she perceives you are snooping. I know you were not, but she might perceive it that way.

You do not gain anything by bringing it up and stand to lose a little.

BITS
Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill