good morning all and I hope every one will be safe tonight while celebrating the new year.
Drinking my morning coffee and thinking about my positives from yesterday.
1. had a good workout with her at the gym yesterday morning followed by a nice breakfast before we had to go to work. She thanked me for making her start working out.
2. had a short but nice IM from her yesterday mornin after we each got to work but I had clients all day and she was working with a bookkeeper to work on her accounting so we did not have much time to IM.
3. my 800flowers.com order was delivered to her around 1pm and she sent a great IM thanking me. She seemed to be really happy about it and as she was really down about alot of other problems in her life now it boosted her PMA.
4. got a phone call from her last night (she is calling alot lately) and we talked for almost an hour. Again thanked me for the flowers and for working out. Said she was going to have an appointment with a personal trainer today (Sales pitch - she said she would not bite) and since I was already going to work out this afternoon she suggested that I meet her at her home and we could go together, suggested that since I was taking off at noon that I could come over when ever I wanted even I she had to work some more I was welcome. She also agreed with my suggestion that we could do dinner after. (Last week I had asked her to do something with me for new years but she said she could not plan anything that far ahead so I planned to let her come up with new years plans.) After Dinner I guess we will play it my ear as to what we do.
5. Also in the call she stated that she got caught in traffic comming home last night so she stopped at a mall and just walked and got dinner and enjoyed herself - I told her I thought that was great. she followed with the fact that she really did not have walking shoes on and her feet hurt and could use a foot massage. (she also said in her call night before that she could use a back rub and I remember that she has been saying things like that a lot lately) All I could say was that I wish I was there to give her a good foot massage. She also mentioned the night before last that with all the problems with her employee and her generally down feeling that she was feeling the worst when she was alone. I told her that she could call me any time and we could just talk about fun things or if she wanted I would come over and we could do a movie or just do any fun thing to get her mind on other things. (seems that with other things bothering her she is comming to me for support - I can live with that)
Well time to get ready for work - looking forward to a good afternoon and evening.
