new thread same stuff..

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2149766&page=1


How is it that you can get over the hurt of being betrayed? I only want to talk to my girls but they always tell me when their mommy is out on a date with the OM. I would rather not know and let myself heal that way. But when it comes up, all I get is hurt.

any suggestions?

It seems like I'm fine when I don't talk to her and I don't hear about her. Am I hiding from the truth?


m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE