Wow - still realing from last night so many positives I don't know if I can remember them all so I will list some in no special order.
1. she said she wanted to start going to a counselor 2. when I left she said she would be dreaming of me 3. she got me some more pepper jelly (had to look at my first thread for this one "Divorce Pending 9/21)and we ate some on some toast with our Hickory Farms stuff yesterday afternoon. 4. I held off on hugging and kissing when I got there and let her make the first moves and she did several times and as the night progressed she seemed to hold the kisses and hugs so long I thought she would never let me go (which was fine with me) 5. really a great time with C - on top of lots of hugging and kissing, we had lots of laughing and kidding and snuggling (weather was warm enough for us to lay down together in our double hammock in the back yard for about 10 minutes and watch the high clouds drift by in front of a deep blue sky. 6. she trusted me enough to let me help her get her belly button ring back in. (I know that had to hurt)
Well folks - today I have to find a Solution Focused Therapist that has a commement to saving relationships for both of us to start going to.
