Seeking,

I can't say whether men feel as deep a bond with their chldren as women do, but I can say that my H and I, many years ago, when D32 was a pre-teen, that we had a huge fight over her. Something she said or did. I remember telling H that he should never make me choose between him or my kids, my kids would win everytime.

I think this was before we married, in fact. Maybe your D did give OW a run for her money. Maybe, she just can't feel for other people's kids. Either way, maybe H got a long hard look at the OW this trip. Here's Hoping!