<< "Someone once said to me.. people saying they are gonna go.. are not gonna go. They just want people to tell them to stay." Kind of like the people who threaten suicide and like the terrorists. My W threatened D at every turn and bump in the road. I think that it was a way to antagonize me so that she could blame me for the wayward path she was going to take anyway.
<< My needs.. are honestly just gone now Jack. I am just trying to "find" something to hold onto. I suspect that if she walked up tomorrow and told me she would fulfill all my "needs".. I would pass. How is that for honesty? I hate the term "passive aggressive" because it seems like such a "put down" at least to me. So let's put it another way. Are you skillfully communicating your feelings to her and asking for what you need? Looks like your W has been putting the kids needs before yours. What does the wonderful C say about this?
Looks like things have gotten beyond repair?
(BTW: In my case, I've not only shut the door as tightly as possible and I've changed the locks, i.e, I avoid her like the plague)
