You know Beatrice, I think we eventually adapt to what our lives become after our spouses leave. We get used to living it for ourselves. We no longer have to take anyone else's concerns into consideration. We don't have to deal with anyone's likes or dislikes. All we have to consider is pleasing ourselves.
H and I, had what I considered a very good M up until about 2 years before BD. I have no interest in wanting the man H turned into back.
I am so glad you have finally found peace and happiness in the new life you've made for yourself. It's a goal I strive for.
Thank you for staying on and sharing your journey with the rest of us.
