She is responsibile for her feelings. NO ONE can make her feel anything, she has to own her own feelings. Just as you must own yours.
Her frustration is hers to cope with, it's not yours. So she's frustrated, hmmm, that's unfortunate.
Your job is to cope with YOUR feelings, control them, and choose how you wish to feel about events. It's hard work too, but it's in your grasp, the other stuff with your W, not so much.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
