Hey I will be the last to get up your nose here. Detachment is damn hard. Finding the difference between detaching with love and not giving a rip is hard. I tend to lean to the not give a rip, unfortunately, because it's a lot easier for me to have few good feelings than any for H.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.