Talked to H today, he told me it is over with OW, because she is CRAZY! He is a bit scared of her because she is so nuts. He let me verbally abuse him for a good 30 minutes, then started sobbing and saying he doesn't want to get divorced, he wants another chance, he loves me, he'll do whatever it takes, etc.

I am on information overload. Not sure if I can ever forgive him. Need time to think, and of course I'm afraid of the dreaded "fake reconcile" I keep reading about. Not that I'd let him come home or move fast, but....I dunno.

J3B- Honestly it felt good to tell her a bit of what I think of her, and also to know she is wacko, although it did get scary as it progressed. She was talking about being my girls stepmom, and that freaked me out.

Me- 35
H- 36
M- 7
T- 9
D3, D5
Bomb 1/21/11
EA/PA began 12/10?
Discovered A 3/2/11
S- 3/3/11
OW gone- 4/27/11
H says he wants to reconcile, but lacking action