[quote=25yearsmlc]isn't it possible she misses her step daughter and therefore stays in some contact b/c she feels guilt for abandoning her and or wants to maintain a R with her?
The short asnwer? No. I have a lot of threads and it is a lot of reading but I have documented almost every single convo I have had with XW in the past 4 months.
Yes you do. I spent over an hour yesterday trying to find your original situation. I could not keep up with each development but I spent enough time to get more than the gist.
Your w was, in her mind, badly neglected routinely and over time. The divorce is a rapid one, true. But that doesn't mean the R is ending simultaneously.
Bottom line is here's my "beef" with your attitude. If she weren't callling you at all, you'd be angrily posting here about that. You would demand to know how she wiped the slate clean, forgot about you and d, and how can she forget all the good times, and what about all the years together and vows she took, and how can she abandon d and start over and not even look back or have any mixed emotions and...blah blah blah...
instead, she calls you. And you are upset by that. This is b/c.....well, b/c WHY??
What do you want now, from her?
Knowing that will help us help you.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
