SA - those fears that we are going to loose our children to the OP are normal...we have already lost our H's to them....but as you can see it's just our own insecurities...our children are much wiser and more perceptive than we think...they can see through these people. Obviously the OW in your case has major issues herself to treat your D the way she did...but then it shouldn't be a surprise...I have no respect for women that get involved with married man and take husbands and fathers away from families.
(((hugs)))
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO