stated "but you know I am seeing somebody" and I replied but you know you are married!!!!
That has got to be THE most baffling things that I've seen here and in my own sitch...
How do they get or rather not get that?
Like they completely forget... erased from their memory, that they signed a piece of paper, said vows in front of God and witnesses, stating fact that they enter into the covenant of marriage... willingly and with intention to be so.
It is so bizarre. That's really got to be an indicator of MLC rather than WAS. WAS might leave to live their life alone and do the process of D as something they want to do. But when the "confusion" over the fact that they are married and get into EAs or PAs... c'mon...! At least wait until D before entering into intimate relations with any OP, or even considering it.
I'd have to think that the rule of WAS is no EA / PA whereas MLC would be OP... *shrug*