The reality is I want my wife to see the value that I bring to the R. I want her to understand that I can see both sides. I want her to see the reality of me not walking away.
it's her choice whether she wants to value it or not. you could be crapping gold bars and it may mean nothing to her.
imo, your best bet is to let her go. let her see the reality of you walking away.
do you really want to be with someone who doesn't value you? that you have to try to make this person see that value in you?
have you tried letting her go and filing for d? life is too short to waste on someone who doesn't see value in you. unless you don't value yourself.
