Sidenote--If your family challenged her mothering in any way and you did not fully and openly support her, and stand up to your family in the process, you can be sure she felt betrayed, & saw you as a weak disloyal h....sorry but many of us can say "been there, done/seen that"....
Hi 25yearsmlc, your comments are hitting home for me, especially the part above. During the birth and 3 months after, my parents who were visiting from Asia were seen as a parenting threat to my wife and I didn't support my wife enough in this regard. Till this day she still hangs it over my head. I can do all the opposite of all her issues and complaints about me, but I'm not sure if there'll ever be a "solution" for this.
Stand up for your wife now-- to your parents. Better late than never.
Sad to say, in my situation, that may be a moot point now. This was almost 3 years ago, and my wife has already moved out and filed, and will have nothing to do with me (as far as I know), let alone my family.
