Sidenote--If your family challenged her mothering in any way and you did not fully and openly support her, and stand up to your family in the process, you can be sure she felt betrayed, & saw you as a weak disloyal h....sorry but many of us can say "been there, done/seen that"....
Hi 25yearsmlc, your comments are hitting home for me, especially the part above. During the birth and 3 months after, my parents who were visiting from Asia were seen as a parenting threat to my wife and I didn't support my wife enough in this regard. Till this day she still hangs it over my head. I can do all the opposite of all her issues and complaints about me, but I'm not sure if there'll ever be a "solution" for this.
