IDK Islander. She wants to go to a IC but when? Are these just idle words? If she does want to go , why hasnt she?

Be careful, the WAS will often say what you want to hear just so they keep you on the string.

NOw having said that, it sounds to me like there is sill hope to some degree. She says she is not happy and thinks about the R often but is it true? Im sure she thinks about it but does she think about Om as often?

Im not trying to bring you down Islander, Its just that I have seen this happen sooooo many times when they say things like that but dont follow it up with action.

Are they insecure about their future? Possibly.

One thing though, I think you have to knock off being ultra sad around her. She may see this as a weakness and not attractive to come home to.

Dont beat yourself up too much islander. There were some positives that came out of this but NOW you are hanging on to hope like a drowning person to a floatation device.

I KNOW YOU ARE and that may have set you back from getting a life.

Its a slippery slope.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11