My son said to me in the car mommy said you aren't together anymore because you guys always fight. It made me angry, because she lies to them about what happened to protect her image. I still remember the tome she asked me if we could just tell the kids we just wanted different things instead of the truth as to why I filed (infidelity, lies, self respect).

I was angry because my kids are too little to understand the situation. I feel if she isn't gonna tell the truth (and nows not the time), she should not discuss the topic at all. Brainwashing my kids with her life of lies!! All I said to my son was, your too young to understand, but when your older I will tell you everything, right now all you need to know is that mommy and daddy love you.


Me:39 W:31 M:8
D6,3,19mo S5
I filed D 07-2010