I think so for the most part, but her wants CERTAINLY come before the kids needs. I am concerned about her dropping them off at a sitter for overnights and also having a young girl babysit while she goes places... A big big deal considering she only has them 1-2 days a week. I feel like her actions indicate the kids are a hinderance in her life... What mother would not want their kids more, what mother would refuse to take them, what mother would pawn them off on someone REGULARLY when you have such limited time with them already? Idk? But I feel bad for the kids alot.