We never did talk last night. Once she laid down it was lights out. I am working from home today and she's home. However, I am keeping my distance. She needs to feel some of these emotions. I don't what she's feeling right now. Is it disappointment that the L told her she probably shouldn't move out? Does she not like her decision as much anymore? Who knows?
I think I just need to concentrate on detaching today.
Whatever we end up talking about, I will NOT feel like a victim.
jbn,
Most wayward and walkaway wives are so caught up in their fantasy that they've done VERY little, if any, of their legal/financial homework. It's very common for reality to slap them in the face when they begin to find out that everything's not going to work out as perfectly as they had fantasized that it would.
So yes, I would bet that she got some cold water thrown at her yesterday.
