We never did talk last night. Once she laid down it was lights out. I am working from home today and she's home. However, I am keeping my distance. She needs to feel some of these emotions. I don't what she's feeling right now. Is it disappointment that the L told her she probably shouldn't move out? Does she not like her decision as much anymore? Who knows?
I think I just need to concentrate on detaching today.
Whatever we end up talking about, I will NOT feel like a victim.