Originally Posted By: abbey1989
Hi Starsky,

Thank you. I do realize that I am in an endless loop. I am going to seek some outside help and do appreciate your words of wisedom.

Best, A.


Might want to start here:

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Plus we ML this a.m. (I was not the initiator).


At least maybe you'd get your self-respect back. A well-timed "I'm no longer comfortable with this, considering what you're doing. I'm your wife, not your booty call" might slap him at least partially back into reality.

Really, Abbey, you're worth so much more than this. Your husband won't begin respecting you until YOU do.

Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)