Bolt,

One of my best friends' parents got divorced when they were pre-teens. She, the eldest, chose to stay with her father. Her little sister went with the mother. Things work out. They are all a happy family. Mom & Dad are back to being friends at this point ( 30+ years later) The youngest girl did a little playing Mom off against Dad, but they finally saw through that. They are both healthy and happy, with kids and grands of their own.

It's not a bad thing, should it happen that way. It's just different. What is normal nowadays, anyway?


ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011