My H is a big one on 'blood money' and people fighting over things after a death in the family. Well, divorce is a death in the family, and he's as greedy as any step-cousin twice removed I've ever heard of.
I listed all the things he 'stole' from our storage building as his and placed a price of replacement on them. He seems very upset that I haven't kicked up a fuss.
Stay in control, YR, just think your steps through calmly and clearly.