OMG- so H's girlfriend just sent me a message on facebook telling me he has been living with her since he moved out 2 months ago. Her FB profile pic is of his tattoo, so I know it's true. He, of course, isn't answering my calls/texts (just one of each).

What do I do now? Why can't these f-ers just have the balls to end the relationship before moving in with someone else??? And what an idiot- he left $$$ in a hiding place in the house, rather than taking it with him. Almost all of his possessions, minus his playstation and some clothes, are here in the house.

I will contact an attorney tomorrow. What should I do in the meantime? I am so disgusted. I am not sad or crying or anything, just really angry and disgusted. It breaks my heart for the kids, who don't deserve this. My blood ran cold when I read that message.


Me- 35
H- 36
M- 7
T- 9
D3, D5
Bomb 1/21/11
EA/PA began 12/10?
Discovered A 3/2/11
S- 3/3/11
OW gone- 4/27/11
H says he wants to reconcile, but lacking action