Ha ha, Punkin, my XH had a vasectomy about 5 years into our marriage, and the doctor said that he was laying ruin to those parts so that it couldn't be reversed, but I'm of course afraid that some doctor today would see it all as a challenge and reverse it. I agree, I feel like these moves he makes validate me as the "albatross" as you so eloquently put it...but I guess we need to stop thinking that way. Everyone in my life says HE was the albatross ;-) I guess it depends whose side you take on this stuff!

We're supposed to get storms tonight again. We haven't had anything too major, just so much rain that I'm mowing once a week and that's not even seeming to be enough. Stay safe!


M45
Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11
Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy
"Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying