Hmm... how do you tell when it's an MLC? It sure feels like one. In the last 3 years, H got a great new job and we moved cities. He lost a lot of weight and got in great shape, he now makes exercise a priority and his hobbies are all active. He has changed his diet, gotten new friends, we decided at some point to have kids which was not in the plan before.
The other things about how nothing with me is good seem to hit the mark too. But how do you know for sure?
Anyways, just putting my thoughts down here. I need to whip up some goals here soon. Maybe next week I will be in the right place to do that.