Now that you've explained a bit more, it could very well be her. She's still trying to get into your system to either leave a virus, see what you've been up to or steal your identity and screw up your job situation. These people just thrive on making our lives miserable.
Your h's behavior is very much like my xh's. He couldn't wait to get the divorce over with and now...well, I can't seem to get rid of him and his antics.
Please be careful and take care of yourself. I don't trust him or the OW.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
